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Move Over, “Dear Abby.” “Ask Dr. Darcy” is Straight Talk for the Gay Community

Have you ever had a question on which you needed straight-shooting, professional advice?  Dr. Darcy Sterling, a licensed clinical social worker based in the SoHo section of New York City, dishes up just that on a regular basis through her blog, YouTube channel, and her work with her wife, Stephanie Sterling, at Alternatives Counseling.

As a writer for Psychology Today and as a columnist for GO Magazine (which profiled Darcy and Stephanie’s wedding in 2009), Dr. Darcy has increasingly been tapped by media for commentary, such as for E! Entertainment’s When Women Kill.  While certainly media-savvy, Darcy also has the credentials to back up her observations, having received a Master’s Degree in Social Work from Columbia University in 1996, and a Ph.D. from New York University in 2006. 

Her style is direct and focused, both with media and clients alike, and Dr. Darcy graciously recently took time to chat with me about her tell-it-like-it-is “straight talk” and issues she sees within the LGBT community.

Dr. Darcy SterlingKergan Edwards-Stout:  I’m so glad we’re finally able to talk!  I’ve been looking forward to this.

Dr. Darcy: Me too! 

Kergan:  I’m really curious about you and your approach to therapy.  First, though, tell me a bit about yourself.

Darcy:  I’m a Jersey girl! (laughing) I’m from Roseland, New Jersey, which is about 45 minutes from New York.  When you grow up just outside the city, you tend to think that you’re a New Yorker.  But once you’re here, living the life, you realize just how “off” you were!  When I was younger, I didn’t have to strap my day’s belongings to me, and take subways and cabs, through all kinds of weather…  It is a very different world than what I’d thought!

Kergan:  What made you decide to make the move into the city?

Darcy:  Both my graduate and post-graduate work was here, and I knew it was where I’d end up.  Before I moved to New York, I was married–to a man.  We were together over 13 years, but eventually we parted ways, and afterward, I knew I’d never date a man again. I’d always known I was bicurious, but hadn’t explored it until my 30s. So I moved to New York and started dating Steph.  Moving to New York was empowering in many ways.

Kergan:  How did you meet Stephanie? 

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